• Flirtexting

    How to Navigate the World of Digital Dating

    (Available in Paperback and on Kindle)


    Texts, DM's, and quippy emails can make or break a budding relationship. With sassy—yet classy—advice, playful prepackaged responses, and hilarious real-life dating scenarios, dating experts Debra Goldstein and Olivia Baniuszewicz guide you through the digital game of love. Available for purchase everywhere books are sold.

  • what's inside

    Everything you need to know to get what you want via text.

    In this book you'll learn how to:

    • Create the Best Possible Text (BPT) to get what you want every time
    • Read the subtext of his text
    • Create an attention-grabbing dating profile
    • Decode his online dating profile and messages
    • Get him to call instead of text
    • Handle digital breakups
    • Text him to the "friend zone"
    • Spice up your relationship digitally
    • Properly use emojis and abbreviations

    We also cover:

    • Pre-packaged and approved responses to the 10 most commonly sent text messages 
    • Digital turn-ons and turn-offs revealed by 30 hot guys
    • Which dating websites and apps are right for you
    • How to compose the “post-date courtesy text"
    • Response time and what it says about you
    • The dos and don’ts every flirtexter should know!

    Check out Deb and Olivia in action...


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  • Testimonials

    What People are Saying about Flirtexting

    Star Magazine

    "A modern-day guide on how to use different forms of technology to find a guy (or two)."

    E. Jean Carrol, Elle Magazine

    "Debra Goldstein and Olivia Baniuszewicz are the Hemingway and Fitzgerald of texting. As two of the greatest texting stylists in the English language, they know how to bewitch a man right out of his brains! Not only do Debra and Olivia give you witty responses to every conceivable text or FM message a chap can send you, they also give you something a thousand times more important: The age-old secrets of allure. (And these ladies know more about allure than Aphrodite.)"

    Huffington Post

    "Oh, the agony of dating in the digital age. How long do you wait before responding to his text? What does it mean when she doesn't text you back right away? How should you reply when she asks what you are doing tonight? Fortunately, flirtexting experts Debra and Olivia - who literally wrote the book on flirtexting - are here to save the day."


    "If only poor Mary, Drew Barrymore's character in He's Just Not That Into You, had a copy of Flirtexting on hand to help her navigate the world of online dating, she might not have ended up with a schlep like ScarJo-besotted Kevin Connolly."

    Publisher's Weekly

    "Arguing that 'boys text; therefore girls need to learn how to flirtext," first-time authors and BFF's Goldstein and Baniuszewicz show the next generation of single women how to entertain suitors with the art of text message flirtation. With this guide in hand, young singles won't be at a loss for words - at least until heir next F2F encounter."

    Kristin Cavallari

    "Every girl has a great Flirtexting story! And if you don't, you will after reading this!"


    "Flirtexting: How to Text Your Way into His Heart will not only get you a date, it will also make you LOL."

    AM New York

    "Flirtexting via text message - or 'Flirtexting' - is a must in today's digital world."

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    Those texts aren't going to write themselves.

    Upgrade your texting game today.

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